Q. My wife and I have $15,000 in debt left to pay off. We bring home around $32,000 a year, and we usually spend $250 to $300 on Christmas.
I started talking to her about your plan earlier this year, and she finally agreed and got on board a couple of months ago.
How should we handle Christmas budgeting in the middle of working our debt snowball?
A. The first thing I’d suggest is to not mention my name for a while. If she’s agreed to start working the plan and help you guys get control of your money, that’s enough for now.
We don’t want to cause a rift during the holidays.
Just sit down together and ask her what she thinks is a reasonable amount to spend for Christmas while you’re trying to get out of debt. If it’s a reasonable figure, smile and tell her you agree.
You might even ask if she’s okay with your old Christmas budget. If she is, then pencil it in and move on to other things.
The big thing is to make sure you listen to her opinion and work on this together.
On the off-chance that she gives some crazy dollar amount, just nod and ask how she came to that figure.
Then, talk things out.
Don’t bring up my name or go crazy about things.
It sounds like you two are on the right track.
Q. Do you think I should consider switching from my traditional TSP (Thrift Savings Plan) to a Roth TSP?
A. If I’ve got a choice, I’m going with the Roth TSP.
Now if you’re starting out really late with your saving and investing, the math might work out either way. But in most cases, when you’ve got several years ahead of you, a Roth TSP, or even a Roth IRA or Roth 401(k) where your money grows tax-free, is a much better choice.
Remember, unless you’ve waited until you’re in your 60s, the vast majority of the money in the account will be growth. Ten percent or less will be the money you actually put into the account. This tax-free growth is what makes the Roth TSP an excellent choice.
In other words, if you’ve got $1 million in your current investment, and $900,000 is growth, you’ll get taxed on that portion. That would amount to around $300,000.
If your money is in a Roth, there are no taxes. You just saved $300,000 out of every $1 million.
Not a bad deal, is it?
Q. What do you think about using an online bank for my emergency fund?
A. It’s not a bad idea at all, as long as you can easily check out the institution’s reputation and stability.
There are lots of financial scams online, so you want to do some research and make sure they’re a reputable and trustworthy organization.
Due diligence is the key. There are reliable household names that are online banks, but you can’t just assume the group you’re dealing with online is made up of honest, stand-up folks any more than you can with a traditional brick-and-mortar bank.
Make sure you take your time and know exactly what you’re getting into before going into business with them.
Remember, it’s not as simple with an online bank as just walking in the door to get your money back if something goes wrong.
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