TRUDY RUBIN: A lesson in surviving hate



At a time when sectarian wars are on the rise, a fascinating exhibit at the Free Library of Philadelphia reminds us that people aren’t born with these visceral hatreds, but are taught them.

Called “Survival in Sarajevo: Jews, Muslims, Serbs, and Croats during the siege of Sarajevo, 1992-1995,” the exhibit raises a fascinating question: Why are some people able to rise above political and media machinations that aim to instill hate?

In the polyglot city of Sarajevo, few thought the sectarian violence sparked by the breakup of Yugoslavia would reach them. But the city was besieged, mortared, and starved by Belgrade-backed Serbs for three years while the world looked on and did nothing.

So a handful of Holocaust survivors turned Sarajevo’s one remaining synagogue into a humanitarian aid agency, La Benevolencija (meaning “good will”). There, Jews and Muslims, along with Serbian Orthodox and Catholic Croats, worked together to feed hundreds of near-starving citizens daily. I have a very personal interest in this story, as I visited Sarajevo during the siege and attended Passover seder in 1996 at the synagogue. (More about that below.)

The large, turn-of-the-century Ashkenazi synagogue became a shelter, clinic, and storage hall for the needy, with no questions asked about background. Five hundred thousand medical prescriptions were filled and 20,000 patients treated.

What was different about this group?

For one thing, the Jews’ deep historic ties to Sarajevo put them in a unique position to initiate the project. Sephardic Jews migrated to the city at the time of the Spanish Inquisition in the 16th century, and, under the Ottoman Empire, were never required to live in ghettos; Ashkenazi Jews arrived when the Austro-Hungarian empire took control of Bosnia in the late 19th century.

The community was decimated by Nazis and Croatian fascists during World War II. In the words of the exhibit, La Benevolencija’s organizers “shared with a lesson Jews in Europe had been learning for centuries: how to survive.”

Equally important, the fact that Jews were considered neutral enabled their vans to pass through Muslim, Croatian Catholic, or Serbian Orthodox check points. And they were able to access Jewish aid groups abroad, primarily the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee.

But the small number of Jews could not have done this alone, and the Croats, Serbs, and Muslims who joined them were also special. Thirty-two percent of Sarajevo’s population before the siege was intermarried. In this sophisticated city, most young people believed their former Yugoslav identity had trumped religion, and tried to cling to that belief when war came. Many Sarajevan Croats and Serbs remained in the city, although it became the capital of the Muslim sector of Bosnia.

I wish I could say that their splendid nonsectarianism resonated after the siege. Sadly, postwar Bosnia-Herzegovina is still bitterly divided into Serb, Croat, and Muslim sectors, and, even in Sarajevo, sectarianian sentiments have increased.

However, even in divided countries, one constantly sees examples of young people defying the hatemongers. At the Passover seder I attended in Sarajevo, local Jews were joined by Catholics, Orthodox, and Muslims, and by the then-Bosnian ambassador to Washington, Sven Alcalaj, a Sarajevan who was half Jewish and half Croatian Catholic.

The rabbi, Moshe Tutnauer, an American Israeli who once officiated at Philadelphia’s congregation Har Zion, recited a prayer from the famous 14th-century Sarajevo Haggadah (Passover prayerbook) as he held the traditional unleavened bread, saying: “This is the bread of affliction which our ancestors ate in Egypt. Let anyone who is hungry come and eat.”

“That,” he added, “is the message of La Benevolencija.”

And that example remains a model of how to rise above sectarian hate.

Trudy Rubin is a columnist and editorial-board member for the Philadelphia Inquirer. Readers may write to her at: Philadelphia Inquirer, P.O. Box 8263, Philadelphia, Pa. 19101.

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  • FrereJocques

    Sadly, this is the story of the human existence. Hate is the weapon of
    choice when one wants to elevate himself and his cohorts above all
    others for their own benefit and profit and power. Adolph Hitler used it
    to his great advantage in one of the prime examples.

    worse, this technique has been adopted by religious leaders, churches,
    and sects. They seek to gain power and wealth by raising false alarms
    about the threats supposedly posed by those who do not follow them and
    their beliefs. By blaming others, they convince their followers to cede
    their own beliefs and basic logic as well as their money and other
    resources “for the good of all”. And even worse, they approve and
    practice all of this in the name of God, who, according to His own
    words, abhors what they are doing.

    I firmly believe that on Judgment Day, if there ever is one, there are going to be a lot of very surprised (and angry) people.